How to Love unconditionally.

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Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way––it encompasses compassion, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, determination and more. This article will give you some food for thought, by recommending some ideas on love for pondering anew.
 
1. Acknowledge the breadth of love.
Love isn't simply about romance to define it so narrowly is to deprive yourself of the beauty and full extent of love. Love is a feeling, drive or emotion that we experience in association with people, pursuits and nature, and love can be found in many places, situations and relationships.
2. Begin by loving yourself. You can only truly love another being when you love yourself properly. Otherwise, you risk spending a lot of your life projecting inner hurts, pain and other negative emotions onto other people, seeing the worst in them so as to avoid facing it inside yourself.
3. Actively show love. Ultimately, you are the one who must take action in order to discover love. Show your devotion to others by being considerate, respectful and thoughtful of their needs, by doing little acts of random kindness and by showing them that you care about their well-being.
4. Love unconditionally. Love is an action from which you should not expect anything in return. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations such as expecting to be loved in equal measure in return, then it is not love at all, but a transaction.
5. Be tolerant. You cannot say in one breath that you're a loving and caring person and in the other breath say that you hate a particular person or type of person. To do so is to deny the reality of love, which is accepting of even the things you find hard to love in another person.
6. Love those who don't love you. Where hate is directed toward you, repel it with love and use their hatred as motivation to show that tolerance, kindness and acceptance are better ways to get along in our communities.
7. Accept risk. You cannot love without accepting that there is always a chance of loss of the love or of being hurt. That is what makes love so powerful though––we risk much because the reward of love is so great. And in losing love at times in life, you learn to appreciate the love you do have even
more. Finally,Love cannot be pigeonholed it happens whenever your heart is open to receiving the beauty, wonder and awe of people, beings and happenings around you.
so always try to show people love even when they don't love you back

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