Article: HOW TO HANDLE BEING SINGLE
Being single means not having a husband, a partner or not engaged in any romantic relationship that requires commitment. There are people who felt bad being single while others just love it as life. There are many reasons why people decide to be single. Single people are those who are too busy with their career and find it hard to spend some time to date or engage in commitment. As you can observe, people especially women of these days prefer to stay single. Why? It is because there are men who are still observing patriarchal concept. And these men prefer that their women, wife or partner to stay at home to take care of the family. But women of these days want to build their own career; they want to be independent and capable of supporting their self.
Another reason why women opt to be single is because being single also means being free.
Freedom is what women want, it is what they dream of way back in time and now that they have it, they would not let it go and instead they are going to enjoy it as much as they wanted. A lot of people say, being single is sad. But then, that is not always the case. In fact, single people are the happiest of all only if they know how. So here are some tips on how to live a happy single life.
Be happy with yourself. Perhaps, being happy with yourself is the most important things in life. The first step to be happy is acceptance. Accept who you are and what you are. Do not try to be someone else. Always remember that you are unique in your own way. God has made you just like others and as long as you do not hurt anyone, there is no need for you change yourself. Accept yourself and happiness will follow.
Do the things that you love and learn from it. Always find time to relax and enjoy your hobbies. If you like reading, then you must pamper yourself from time to time with books and reading materials that you enjoy. Since you are single, there is nothing wrong about spending your money the way you wanted. Just
do not forget limitations.
Learn to socialize. Find time to go out with your friends. Of course the first step here is for you to make some friends. Just make sure that these friends of yours are good influence. Most of the time, friends make you feel less lonely. They are the one who gives you quality time of enjoyment. Love your family. The love you get from your family and friends will be enough to show you that you are loved.
Another reason why women opt to be single is because being single also means being free.
Freedom is what women want, it is what they dream of way back in time and now that they have it, they would not let it go and instead they are going to enjoy it as much as they wanted. A lot of people say, being single is sad. But then, that is not always the case. In fact, single people are the happiest of all only if they know how. So here are some tips on how to live a happy single life.
Be happy with yourself. Perhaps, being happy with yourself is the most important things in life. The first step to be happy is acceptance. Accept who you are and what you are. Do not try to be someone else. Always remember that you are unique in your own way. God has made you just like others and as long as you do not hurt anyone, there is no need for you change yourself. Accept yourself and happiness will follow.
Do the things that you love and learn from it. Always find time to relax and enjoy your hobbies. If you like reading, then you must pamper yourself from time to time with books and reading materials that you enjoy. Since you are single, there is nothing wrong about spending your money the way you wanted. Just
do not forget limitations.
Learn to socialize. Find time to go out with your friends. Of course the first step here is for you to make some friends. Just make sure that these friends of yours are good influence. Most of the time, friends make you feel less lonely. They are the one who gives you quality time of enjoyment. Love your family. The love you get from your family and friends will be enough to show you that you are loved.
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